feat(query): Support flight_connection_max_retry_times and flight_connection_retry_interval setting

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Summary

Add two new settings:

• flight_connection_max_retry_times: Flight connection maximum retry times. The default value is 3 and the maximum value is 10. Set 0 to disable retry.
• flight_connection_retry_interval: Flight connection retry interval. The default value is 3 seconds and the maximum value is 30 seconds.

The code is copied from PR #16234, thanks @dqhl76

fixes: #16771

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